tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post8761437546406830588..comments2023-10-22T10:31:09.224-04:00Comments on Just BEing John-Michael: "My Brain Doesn't Work"John-Michaelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-18008488815510350232008-03-15T15:32:00.000-04:002008-03-15T15:32:00.000-04:00Misty ... You would have no way of knowing ... but...Misty ... You would have no way of knowing ... but the one who knows all about all that we are, knows that you spoke the most perfect words, at the most perfect time (at this precise moment) that touch my heart and soul in the most perfect way.<BR/><BR/>I am NEVER surprised at these lovely gifts from Life ... but will ALWAYS marvel at them. You, My Darling, are just such a timely gift.<BR/><BR/>I will gladly accept your invitation to read your message on your blog. And look forward to discussing it with you at a later time.<BR/><BR/>Celebrate your nieces and their love ... mindful that you are so loved ... by me!John-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-7661518025712380632008-03-15T15:22:00.000-04:002008-03-15T15:22:00.000-04:00Since starting my blog, I have met and become frie...Since starting my blog, I have met and become friends with many, many bloggers. However, my friend, none inspire me and affect my heart and emotions with their posts as strongly as you. I thank you for those moments, and I thank you for allowing me to enjoy your generous and beautiful soul.<BR/><BR/>Now, I must go get ready to go spend the evening basking in the glory of being an aunt to three beautiful and special little girls. I don't usually specifically ask another blogger to read a particular post, however, while I'm away for the evening, if you find that you would like to laugh out loud, I would be honored if you would read my Pummeling Pig Post at www.mistysmusings.com.Misty DawnShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815037247940459349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-24135131944528205872008-03-15T09:18:00.000-04:002008-03-15T09:18:00.000-04:00Beth ... Dear (and you HAVE become quite dear to m...Beth ... Dear (and you HAVE become quite dear to me) Sweet Beth, <BR/><BR/>How can I adequately express how meaningful it is to me ... to consider that my expression, of my soul's conviction, has found a place of acceptance and purpose in your spirit? I haven't words sufficient! Your telling me this is so rich that I am stilled ... humbled ... and oh, so grateful!<BR/><BR/>I love you.John-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-65906574774755265762008-03-15T09:04:00.000-04:002008-03-15T09:04:00.000-04:00"...you can experience ever more frequent moments ..."...you can experience ever more frequent moments of victory and conquest over the obstacles and hurdles of any prevailing circumstance."<BR/><BR/>Your expressed belief here is truly something I live by. I wish more people, especially the young, understood how resilient "life" is to the obstacles we all face and experience. <BR/><BR/>This post truly touched me, especially this line. Thanks for writing this.Beth from the Funny Farmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14648093449310949014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-54444684132380303332008-03-15T07:14:00.000-04:002008-03-15T07:14:00.000-04:00I thank you, Cowgirl, for your kindness. You remin...I thank you, Cowgirl, for your kindness. You reminded me of the moment in question, and I do recall having that self-same "lump in my throat" at the time.<BR/><BR/>When I saw that you were kind enough to comment on the post, I clicked back to your blog in hope that you might just have a fresh entry. And "Hurray" you did indeed! I LOVED it! Wonderful stuff. You are a most talented and engaging writer, and I heartily recommend your work to ALL.John-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-56669173165153559142008-03-15T06:24:00.000-04:002008-03-15T06:24:00.000-04:00Hi John-Michael,What a moving post that was, I fel...Hi John-Michael,<BR/><BR/>What a moving post that was, I felt the lump in my throat when your son was struggling for the right words. Thanks so much for sharing and also for popping in to my blog today. The circle grows!Sam Foxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15981522161884269876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-7202819122239046192008-03-14T13:57:00.000-04:002008-03-14T13:57:00.000-04:00Lizzy ... can I share a gem with you? Yeah, a real...Lizzy ... can I share a gem with you? Yeah, a really good one. It's gonna cost ya though! I'm thinkin' ... yeah! A cup of coffee! (the classy, expensive, GOOD stuff [I really like mocha latte]). Here 'tis.<BR/><BR/>Our sub-conscious mind has NO WAY of distinguishing between physical, material, substantial fact ... and that which we perceive, imagine, or dream up. That's right! Our sub-conscious treats it ALL as FACT. <BR/><BR/>When we put IT (whatever 'it' is) into, or permit 'it' access to, our mind ... it is accepted, with blind trust in our discretion and 'good sense', as REAL! <BR/><BR/>So, when I heard you say (can you imagine actually having to put up with me ... interrupting and going into these diatribes over every element of a conversation ... I am SUCH a pain! [grin]) "we all have obstacles which hold us back, real or imagined" ... I want SO BADLY to help you understand ... that whatever you fear ... whatever you see as a hindrance or obstacle ... IS just that to your perception. And has all of the force and power of solid concrete in its effects on your mind's ability to function around and/or overcome them.<BR/><BR/>So, Mt Darling Friend, please do not minimize or belittle those 'things' that frighten or hinder you. do not try to dismiss them as 'meaningless' or 'inconsequential.' <BR/><BR/>Those dragons and monsters are as real as the breath that you breathe ... to your precious mind. The mind that you must nurture and protect so that it can serve you to your very best interest.<BR/><BR/>(Me loving and caring about you can be a real pain in the asterisk sometimes ... I know. But I won't apologize. 'Cause it is real too.)John-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-4957346794022363262008-03-14T13:25:00.000-04:002008-03-14T13:25:00.000-04:00How fortunate your son is to have such a compassio...How fortunate your son is to have such a compassionate and sensitive father, and how fortunate for you to have such a warm, and loving son! <BR/><BR/>I guess we all have obstacles which hold us back, real or imagined, that effect the way we live and see the world. Sometimes those things are hard to overcome, and sometimes we don't even know they are there. Thank you for this enlightening post John-Michael!<BR/><BR/>LizzyLizzy in the Burbshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11029788783380416676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-88946392313593184972008-03-14T12:28:00.000-04:002008-03-14T12:28:00.000-04:00It is so easy, Crystal, to share in a loving envir...It is so easy, Crystal, to share in a loving environment.<BR/><BR/>I am truly grateful for You as a vibrant part of that reality.John-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-54664187000785860992008-03-14T12:20:00.000-04:002008-03-14T12:20:00.000-04:00You truly are a kind and loving spirit to share su...You truly are a kind and loving spirit to share such inspiring memories and experiences with us all;o)Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06561491547226174929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-43024555638796409832008-03-14T10:47:00.000-04:002008-03-14T10:47:00.000-04:00smile. smile smile.smile. smile smile.John-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-68119671649222350052008-03-14T10:45:00.000-04:002008-03-14T10:45:00.000-04:00Thank you, my SulDog Friend. Each time I hear from...Thank you, my SulDog Friend. Each time I hear from you, I like Life more.John-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-73040506580984542062008-03-14T10:43:00.000-04:002008-03-14T10:43:00.000-04:00yes. yes yes.yes. yes yes.tanya mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03342492814993459178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-17447430654944452762008-03-14T10:36:00.000-04:002008-03-14T10:36:00.000-04:00Another wonderful lesson from a beautiful soul. Th...Another wonderful lesson from a beautiful soul. Thank you.Suldoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07778845367184916684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-15939746159336006602008-03-14T08:58:00.000-04:002008-03-14T08:58:00.000-04:00Dear Sweet Rose ... YES!! He and I are agreeably a...Dear Sweet Rose ... YES!! He and I are agreeably and mutually blessed. I could write (Oh Yeah, I am) a book!<BR/><BR/>I love you Dear. Thank you for your kind words.John-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-27009589601634848242008-03-14T08:56:00.000-04:002008-03-14T08:56:00.000-04:00Shrinky, your "tear the flesh from your bone" is a...Shrinky, your "tear the flesh from your bone" is as good a description of that, too-oft-repeated, experience of witnessing the inner and outer struggles, on the part of a 'Part of your Self.' I truly identify (as well as an outsider can) with your pain.<BR/><BR/>'Makes me love you even more!<BR/><BR/>(the Hug is relished and treasured!)<BR/><BR/>NAMASTEJohn-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-21648883408758308192008-03-14T08:51:00.000-04:002008-03-14T08:51:00.000-04:00Vi! (Oh my goodness! I can't even type your name w...Vi! (Oh my goodness! I can't even type your name without a smile of loving admiration jumping across my tired old face ... COOL!!)<BR/><BR/>I say, to you, My precious Friend, the words that I have spoken to Matthew countless times. "If you have done your best, My Darling, you have done as well as the best of EVERYBODY has ever done." And your 'best effort', my dear Vi, will be nothing short of dazzling!<BR/><BR/>I love you Dear!John-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-51096362729699300602008-03-14T08:46:00.000-04:002008-03-14T08:46:00.000-04:00How sweet and remarkably generous of you, Crystal,...How sweet and remarkably generous of you, Crystal, to trust me with a awareness of your challenges with epilepsy. I too have been challenged, throughout my lifetime, with chronic clinical depression. And, was not aware that it was present until I was in my mid-forties. <BR/><BR/>To have a dysfunctional brain is such an impediment to all of our life. And I can only imagine (based on my experience with family, teachers in school, employers and co-workers, church and social contacts, and on, and on) how disheartening and frustrating (not to mention frightening) life has, at times, been for you. <BR/><BR/>I truly admire and appreciate your openness and trust in speaking of this with me. You have enhanced my love for you.<BR/><BR/>NAMASTEJohn-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-59399354683651866522008-03-14T08:36:00.000-04:002008-03-14T08:36:00.000-04:00Hi Sweetie Cath ... I am so glad that we could acc...Hi Sweetie Cath ... I am so glad that we could accomplish such beneficial things together. Dealing with your "life-stuff" hand-in-hand with your willing and enthusiastic heart is a joy for me. I am, truly, complimented and honored to be included in your life.<BR/><BR/>Your "You gave me permission to be me" is the highest praise and validation that I could ever hope for. It is my desire that WE ALL do nothing less for one another in this little "village" of contact and exposure that we share,<BR/><BR/>I love you, Darling Cath.John-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12301981965656607401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-34204482912809333642008-03-14T08:03:00.000-04:002008-03-14T08:03:00.000-04:00John,Thank your for sharing this with us. You are...John,<BR/>Thank your for sharing this with us. You are so lucky to have him and he you. You made his struggle more understandable...and that is without saying, immeasurable.<BR/>Hugs,<BR/>RoseKissing of the Frogshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11621769823368917856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-7279965688356342382008-03-14T07:48:00.000-04:002008-03-14T07:48:00.000-04:00Nothing can tear the flesh from your bone more tha...Nothing can tear the flesh from your bone more than watching your child struggle to cope with and to understand what (is too often for them) the frightening world about them.<BR/><BR/>Your honesty and love appears to have shaped him well, both you and he are very blessed to share what is obviously a very special bond between you. I send on a hug, pass it on to him will you?Shrinkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18401403773851253351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-80816145168132940812008-03-14T06:54:00.000-04:002008-03-14T06:54:00.000-04:00A very valued point you have made. I will do my be...A very valued point you have made. I will do my best! xVihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03765245225983839101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-36559848937366953902008-03-14T05:51:00.000-04:002008-03-14T05:51:00.000-04:00Being epileptic, part of my brain is rather dysfun...Being epileptic, part of my brain is rather dysfunctional too. Although the rest of it tends to listen, read and understand to the best of its ability. <BR/><BR/>Crystal xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25195308.post-73096012547516459222008-03-14T05:01:00.000-04:002008-03-14T05:01:00.000-04:00My dear John-Dad-Michael,What a beautifully honest...My dear John-Dad-Michael,<BR/>What a beautifully honest and open post. Thank you for sharing this. You have a son to be proud of and, more importantly, he has a father who he can give his total self to and know and trust it is safe. That is rare and special.<BR/><BR/>That you use your experience and pain and learning to help all of us makes you even more special. What a wonderful way to express this confusion we all feel sometimes - whether due to mental impairment, permanent or temporary, confusion, illness, fear or whatever. "My brain won't co-operate". Inspired. Because it perfectly describes that I am not stupid, I know what I want to say or do, I feel. I just can't always get it out there in an orderly way when ill. And you my dear man, have helped me do that in a shorted space of time than I would normally. With a dignity in a public forum I would not otherwise have managed. I am sooooo grateful for that. You gave me permission to be me. I needed that.<BR/><BR/>Unlike your son, I know that I will regain that control on a more permanent basis, and I applaud his resilience, insight, intelligence and his total trust in you, which is well placed. Unfortunately, as we regain control, we bury the "us" inside. I am going to try not to do that this time.<BR/><BR/>Enough rambling. Thanks again for sharing this.<BR/>Love ya!Cathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01247084030899971480noreply@blogger.com