When I become Insignificant to my Significant Other,
I begin to shift focus away from him/her...
To some-one or some-thing where I will find
Validation to suit my need for significance.
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[After watching the husband who has become completely unattractive, through obvious absence of personal care, as he attentively focused on the removal of a miniscule spot of dirt from his shiny new four-by-four deluxe edition pickup truck with his wife totally ignoring him to the same degree that he was oblivious to her.]
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Which raises the question: Have you shifted your focus to friends, hobby, Lover, social or religious activity as a chosen source for the validation of your significance?
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John-Michael/ Tuesday, 15 January 2002
IMAGE: Through the gracious courtesy of Jon Sullivan, PDPhotos.org
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