Monday, October 27, 2008

Alecia


Several years ago, I came to the realization that the relationship between my Self and that of Alecia, (who had become a loved Friend [as we shared the community of folks and services at our neighborhood YMCA]), was mirroring that of a Dad and Daughter. So, one day, I said “You have wanted a Dad for your whole life-time … I love you; I have a place in my heart, and life, for a daughter; and I feel that I am fitting that place in your life now … so, how would you like to establish a permanent and genuine Dad/Daughter relationship between us? I know that I can never be your Father … that is a genetic and natural gift … but I can be a Dad … for that is a relationship of commitment, choice of behaviors and devotion, and willing giving of Self. I am willing.” Happily she accepted my proposal. And this magnificent young woman has been … in the eyes of Heaven, and all who will look upon us here, Dad and Daughter.


Alecia’s birthday was last Saturday. I want to celebrate that anniversary, of her birth, by celebrating the renewal of the birth of our relationship. And, inasmuch as I intend to make that relationship concrete in the eyes of the law as soon as we can work out the legal snags, I want also to make it known to all of you lovely and caring Friends and Readers who have endured my various forms of expressions for over two years now.

Therefore, Dear Ones, I introduce, to you;
My Daughter … Alecia …



Happy Birthday, to You, My Darling Joy, and Heart-Song,
Your Adoring Dad

10 comments:

Suza said...

John-Michael, you, of all people, know that being a Dad, a good Dad, is one of the most difficult, joy-filled responsibilities in the world. I am so thrilled for you and Alecia to have discovered one another. Alecia, I don't know you, but I do know that you could not have divined a better man to honour this position. May you both enjoy this most special gift that you have given each other.

John-Michael said...

Well ... I was already sporting a huge smile of appreciation and joy ... and NOW I do believe that I may be in danger of my smile getting so carried away that it may cause some unknown face-injury. Thank you, Precious Suza, for your marvelously kind and generous thoughts. You have enhanced what was, already, a wonderful moment.

Lovingly ...

Anonymous said...

Dad, Thank you for having lunch with me on my birthday weekend. Thank you for who you are. Thank you for the love and friendship you have given me throughout the years. I love you! Please play our song "Everyday" by Rascal Flats
I just listened to it and it is so right on! :) Love, Alecia

John-Michael said...

surely is a challenge to type with eyes swimming ... your words, melded into the words of OUR SONG, have my cup of joyful gratitude overflowing. I am so amazingly blessed with our beautiful union, My adorable Alecia.

I love you Baby Girl ...

Tess Kincaid said...

What a beautiful and touching tribute to a beautiful daughter. Happy Birthday.

I love this picture!!

John-Michael said...

You, Darling Willow, are so wonderfully kind! Thank you for your magnificent Heart's expression.

Lovingly ...

lime said...

happy belated birthday, alecia!

i'm so glad the two of you have been brought together in such away. that you've each been able to give and receive and fill in some of each other's voids. how blessed you both are and what a WONDERFUL photo of the two of you.

John-Michael said...

I am having one of those 'visionary fantasies' ... us together for a 'celebration of Alecia' party. What a BLAST! Thank you, Dear Lime. You make my heart sing!

Lovingly ...

Meg Wolff said...

Warm thoughts and best wishes to Alecia and you John-Michael!

John-Michael said...

I sigh a sigh, of sweet appreciation, with the embrace of your sweet Spirit, and kind thoughts, surrounding me, My Lovely Friend, Meg. I thank you for that.

Lovingly ...

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